Yesterday I spoke to my friend, who I call my guru, about the unresolved issues I have with my mum and in other relationships. We ended up discussing forgiveness, what it means, and how to do it.
We all know that the bad situations that happen to us are in our Karma. But what I did not know is that Karma is a lesson out of love and not punishment.
So there is a method, I’ yet to try on how to forgive:
- Write down what hurt you
- Live through it. Realize that whatever it was, it was not personal, it was a projection of another person’s frustration on you (what they call being at the wrong place at the wrong time)
- Don't deny how you feel in your heart
- Forgive without expecting an apology.
Let me know if it works!
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